{"id":296,"date":"2016-11-02T02:19:43","date_gmt":"2016-11-02T02:19:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/?p=296"},"modified":"2016-11-22T01:31:47","modified_gmt":"2016-11-22T01:31:47","slug":"remembering-my-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/remembering-my-mom\/","title":{"rendered":"Remembering My Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_302\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-302\" style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"302\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/remembering-my-mom\/momearly_200px\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/momearly_200px.jpg?fit=200%2C289&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"200,289\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"momearly_200px\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Rose &amp;#8220;Jerry&amp;#8221; Sper&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/momearly_200px.jpg?fit=200%2C289&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/momearly_200px.jpg?fit=200%2C289&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-302\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/momearly_200px.jpg?resize=200%2C289\" alt='Rose \"Jerry\" Sper' width=\"200\" height=\"289\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-302\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Rose &#8220;Jerry&#8221; Heringman Sper<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>This is the first of posts about the people to whom my books have been dedicated.<\/p>\n<p>My dedication in <a href=\"http:\/\/emilysper.com\/kidsjewishtime.html\"><em>The Kids&#146; Fun Book of Jewish Time<\/em><\/a> reads, &#147;Dedicated with love to my mom, my first and best editor.&#148; This wasn&#146;t a slight to my Scholastic and Jewish Lights editors, who were great, but my mom brought constructive criticism to another level. Accepting the criticism wasn&#146;t easy, but it was what I needed to hear. &#147;The pictures are great, but the text?&#148; Growing up, my sister and I knew that showing&nbsp; homework to our mom &#151; only double-spaced on a yellow legal pad &#151; meant&nbsp;we&#146;d have to rewrite it, at least once.<\/p>\n<p>After we went to sleep, my mom worked late into the night copyediting hefty manuscripts, aided by cigarettes and coffee. As a freelancer, she worked on books by Joyce Carol Oates, Robertson Davies, Dick Gregory, and others. I knew she&#146;d worked with Saul Bellow on <em>The Adventures of Augie March <\/em>on-staff at the Viking Press, but it wasn&#146;t until a friend asked, &#147;Have you edited any authors we might know?&#148; that I heard her say, &#147;Steinbeck.&#148; Working with Steinbeck on <em>East of Eden<\/em>, she managed to sneak his dedication past Pascal Covici (Steinbeck&#146;s editor and my mom&#146;s boss), to whom the book is dedicated.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_328\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-328\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"328\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/remembering-my-mom\/steinbeck_letter_pat_ph_600\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_Pat_ph_600.png?fit=600%2C307&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,307\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"steinbeck_letter_pat_ph_600\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_Pat_ph_600.png?fit=300%2C154&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_Pat_ph_600.png?fit=600%2C307&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-328 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_Pat_ph_600.png?resize=600%2C307\" width=\"600\" height=\"307\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_Pat_ph_600.png?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_Pat_ph_600.png?resize=300%2C154&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 984px) 61vw, (max-width: 1362px) 45vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-328\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Letter from John Steinbeck<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_305\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-305\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"305\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/remembering-my-mom\/steinbeck_letter_01\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_01.png?fit=600%2C539&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,539\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"steinbeck_letter_01\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Letter from John Steinbeck&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_01.png?fit=300%2C270&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_01.png?fit=600%2C539&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-305\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_01.png?resize=600%2C539\" alt=\"Letter from John Steinbeck\" width=\"600\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_01.png?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/steinbeck_letter_01.png?resize=300%2C270&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 984px) 61vw, (max-width: 1362px) 45vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-305\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Thank-you note from John Steinbeck (Bellogia was a perfume)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>My mom&#146;s library was arranged alphabetically, so my literary education began with Anderson and moved on to Austen, Bellow, Bront&euml;, Davies, Dos Passos, Eliot, and on. Until her death at the age of 96, she was still reading books, <em>The New Yorker<\/em>, and <em>The New York Times<\/em>, and giving editorial advice to anyone who dared ask.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_314\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-314\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"314\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/remembering-my-mom\/books_cropped_600px\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/books_cropped_600px.jpg?fit=600%2C316&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,316\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;(C)2013 Emily Sper, all rights reserved&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"books_cropped_600px\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Just a few of my mom&amp;#8217;s books.&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/books_cropped_600px.jpg?fit=300%2C158&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/books_cropped_600px.jpg?fit=600%2C316&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-314\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/books_cropped_600px.jpg?resize=600%2C316\" alt=\"Just a few of my mom's books.\" width=\"600\" height=\"316\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/books_cropped_600px.jpg?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/books_cropped_600px.jpg?resize=300%2C158&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 984px) 61vw, (max-width: 1362px) 45vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-314\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Some of my mom&#8217;s books transplanted to my house<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; 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My dedication in The Kids&#146; Fun Book of Jewish Time reads, &#147;Dedicated with love to my mom, my first and best editor.&#148; This wasn&#146;t a slight to my Scholastic and Jewish Lights editors, who were great, but my mom &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/remembering-my-mom\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Remembering My Mom&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[58,57,59],"class_list":["post-296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-east-of-eden","tag-john-steinbeck","tag-viking-press"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7v1ZG-4M","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=296"}],"version-history":[{"count":25,"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/296\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":329,"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/296\/revisions\/329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.emilysper.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}